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The Client‘s Whole Life

Our public education system was birthed at the dawn of the Industrial Revolution. We needed to train people to compartmentalize themselves, to do one thing over and over again with accuracy and precision.

So, much of our current educational processes are based on compartmentalization; creating distinctions between this and that. There is much emphasis placed on the PARTS of something and not so much reaching to integrate the whole.

Western medicine falls into this same trap. We have an amazing understanding of the components of the human body. Western medicine is truly gifted at fixing our PARTS and yet, at a core level fails to grasp both the mystery and the importance of the whole.

Human beings are more than just a collection of parts and we must approach working with people in ways that are holistic and integrated.

Even in coaching there is such a rush to “specialize”. We often get the question at CTI: do you train Career Coaches or Executive Coaches or Education Coaches?

I understand the importance of specialization in any practice. It helps us identify ourselves in the market place and provides a focus for the development of tools that speak to specific audiences. Hooray for that.

That said, at its core, Co-Active Coaching understands that we are always working with the WHOLE of a person, whether we are working with them at work or at home and whether we are working on their career or their parenting.

It‘s an illusion that we can separate or isolate one part of a person‘s life and work with that only. Each part is irrevocably connected to the other parts in a fluid and ever changing constellation of emotion, desire, experience and understanding.
KKH


  • vickicotter

    This is just one of the things I love about co-active coaching. I don't have to 'specialize', or choose a niche, because my practice is in my bones, and in my soul, and reaches the world through the lens of my heart, and I have been transformed as a result of this learning, and others I touch are transforming as they see, some for the first time, what is really possible for them. Thank you, Karen.

  • You hit the nail on the head my friend! i would have written the same words, that i am just proud of you. I do not know you, and maybe someday hopefully will. You are truly motivational. I am looking for a program, checking all the sites out, and your words moved me. I coach in some way everyday of my life. I believe in the good of an individual. Sometimes we all lose our way , and maybe knowing someone is there to give unbiased advice is a blessing. Maybe just words of encouragement can change the life of an individual, maybe even just a sentence that gives that fire to believe in themselves, and the circle of life around them. Thank you for showing up on my search of a new journey in my life. People cross paths in mysterious ways, and for no particular reason.... it was a true pleasure crossing yours!

    Forever yours in Great Health,
    Marci : )

  • lenahart

    I whole heartily agree! We all hate it when the doctor examines us as an object or from a perspective of having one problem rather than as a whole human being. Same is with coaching, we need to remember to coach the WHOLE person.
    Lena
    www.findyourjuice.com

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